(Don’t read if you won’t learn)
I
wonder what the expression on the faces of some parents would be if they
discover the kind of stuffs their own children can do in bed. Hmmmhmmm #discoveryworld. If you are a
parent, you will be surprise to know how much your son/daughter knows more
about sex than you do. But thanks to you, you help them subscribe every month
to access the internet and see things for themselves. I can bet they are seeing
things, things that surprise the devil himself. These children play in big
leagues #championsleague I guess and their parents might still be playing in
the #localleague. How many of us can tell our parents we had sex?
But in those days it happened. A girl would tell her mother before and after having sex, and a son would shake hands with his father and uncles. Back in those days when a mother would spend time teaching her daughter how to perform in bed, those days when a father would encourage his son to create a record in the village, those days that people could speak boldly about sex. But in this age, where everybody is discreet about sex and claiming one tin, one tin, we have so many people that have issues with sex, even married couples. I marvel each time I hear how in those days when a mother would wait outside the door where her daughter was being ‘lectured’ with the ‘rod.’ How she would stay and listen to her daughter’s soundtracks and wait for the unexpected. And in the morning when the groom would have left the room, she would go in and speak to her daughter, addressing every issues, questions and doubts she might have. Reassuring her she just played the ‘sweetest game’ in life and now she understood why she knows why she loves ‘banana’ so much.
Couples drift apart, broken marriage and divorce occurs constantly and not talking about ‘sex’ might be one of the major reasons why. Most of us believe God is too holy to be talk to about sex, but have you forgotten that he created sex, talk to Him about it. If you cannot talk to your parents to counsel you, talk to God, talk to someone who can be of help and if you are not old enough or ready don’t do it.
Some people just want to have sex, and that is a problem. Their stories and gist about sex and many just want to know what this is all about. But are you old enough to have sex? Are you old enough to have a child or be in a marriage? Are you old enough to handle whatever responsibilities come with sex, If you are not ready why the rush? Who said it would lose its sweetness if you wait.
WHY DO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX
You might have heard from couples or in a movie where the term “making love” was used. There is a big difference between ‘making love’ and ‘f**king’. Couples ‘make love’ to have babies or enjoy themselves and the love they share, people ‘f**k’ to quench their lust. And as far as I am concerned that lust, that hole, that emptiness can never be filled with just thrusting your ‘rod’ or being thrust by it. STOP!
Who
are you having sex with? Your wife/ husband or…? Sex can ruin your relationship
or boost it, it all depend on the kind of relationship and the foundation of
it. The purpose of any relationship that involves hugging, kissing or curdling
is marriage, if you have something else in mind ‘O Y O’ (own your own) is your
case. Before going into any relationship, pray to God, if you are already in a
one still pray to God, because He is The Beginning and The End. Everything
starts with Him and ends with Him. And make sure you keep away from sex if you
are not ready, don’t let anyone force you. Purpose your relationship for
marriage otherwise you will keep deceiving yourself, wasting your time and life
and helping the other party do same. Sex is a beautiful thing; wait and you
will enjoy it.
